Found the spread on The Tarot Guide.
I asked my husband and had him shuffle the deck after I had. I wanted to include his energies, but felt it was important to ask for consent. Consent is important!
My Perspective - The Star
calm after the storm, hope, power of belief and positivity, heart & soul
His Perspective - The Magician
committing to a goal, eyes on the prize, integrity in check, masculine approach
Foundations - Eight of Wands
accelerated, passion, whirlwind romance
Present State / Issues - Temperance (Reversed)
unbalanced energy, center lost, impatience
Likely Outcome - The Tower
unexpected change, liberation, fresh start, storms to clear the air
Introspection
After reading up on the Star and Magician together, I get the sense that these two describe me and my husband really well. I tend to look at life with positivity and hope, putting my heart and soul into everything I do. My husband is a the type of person to make things happen if he thinks it's possible. I'm more emotional logic, he's more logical emotion. I'm not sure it makes sense to someone else.
The card picked for our foundations is amusing to me, as we got married very quick. Long story short, we met online in June, we became official a couple at the end of the summer, I moved to his state in October, got engaged in December, got married in June. We started from a sexual online relationship and moved forward from that. It's baffles my mind how connected this card is with our foundation.
We are in some sort of "in between" right now with our relationship. We've dealt with a lot of stuff (including an affair, couples therapy, and major depressive episodes among things outside of our relationship). We are currently working on our own mental health and moving toward a new start. Our spark from over ten years ago isn't there anymore, and it's no secret. Things are out of balance, but I am hopeful (the Star in me!) we can rebuild that spark once we move and start new.
For myself, the Tower card makes me nervous, but I think it's related to the unexpected, the new start. We are planning on moving to another state and starting fresh, with a plan to reconnect. I interpret this card as a good thing - something new is needed and it's going to happen. Whatever happens, I have to see it as good for both of us and our relationship.
Positive vibes to everyone out there!
Tabitha
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